It was late in the afternoon when Obby arrives home from school. She got shocked when seeing a crowd of people gathered under the tree. She thought maybe something bad has happened to her father who has been sick for the past three months. Her knees began to tremble with fear and the pounding of her heart could be heard by anyone passing close to her. She stood still for a while and made a silent prayer ‘oh God, let it not be what I am thinking,’ my father is the one taking care of us, what if….’
Suddenly her mother called out, ‘Obby! Obby! We are waiting for you, could you please hurry up.’ Obby went straight to her mother. She knelt down as a way of showing respect and greeted all the strangers who were among the gathering. Her uncle cleared his throat and said to her in a deep voice, this people you see here have come to ask for your hand in marriage. Obby did not believe her ears, at the age of thirteen she was being given away to be a wife to an old man. She asked her uncle again as if she did not hear what he said. Dux, as he was affectionately known, was a very strict man. Everyone in the village was scared of him more especially his terrifying voice. Obby knew deep down in her heart that she has to follow the African custom no matter what, but she decided to be stiff necked and refuse to marry someone who is not her choice.
Obby’s mother became speechless not knowing what to do next. One thing that frightened her most was her brother- Obby’s uncle. He respects tradition more than anything else in the village and whoever tries to flee away from it and behave anyhow face the consequences. Obby faced the consequences of breaking the custom by refusing to go through a traditional marriage. Her uncle ordered the village boys to take her by force and throw her in the middle of the bush since she has no value in the society. That was the end of Obby. Her parents never saw her again, perhaps the jackals had a very delicious dinner with her body.
12 COMMENTS
lizjay
May 4, 2015 - 11:27 Everyone has a free will to do what they want with their lives.If we live by the choices of others we will reap the consequences.Forced marriage does not work at all.It is an archaic custom.Mahoobee
May 4, 2015 - 11:54 Poor girl. :(M smiles
May 4, 2015 - 13:54 O my god.. :(( im so sorryManahill Naik
May 4, 2015 - 14:00 this is so true... so much happen round the world.. Thats a really nice storykatherine phang
May 4, 2015 - 16:18 There is so many future that waits for the 13 years old girl.....poor girl:(Anna
May 4, 2015 - 19:25 this is really tragic :(manelyn
May 6, 2015 - 09:32 I've read stories about this custom of other countries. I just think they're robbing their children of the future they are supposed to have. No country would grow with this kind of thinking.Vishnumayaa
May 6, 2015 - 12:40 i am feeling very.. bad for Obby , child marriage is a crime , its even common in parts of rural india .lizjay
May 6, 2015 - 12:44 Here in Africa is very common.Sometimes parents give away their daughter looking at how rich the man is.They are too much into material things.manelyn
May 7, 2015 - 01:45 Yes, and in many other countries too lizjay. I have read a lot about them and it's just so infuriating. I hope we could do something about it. But with this writings and movements from people who truly care, I know we will be able to stop them in the future. Thanks for writing this one!PriM
August 4, 2015 - 15:26 Be it whichever country, getting a child married is just unacceptable. Heart-breaking!!!nupur27
October 26, 2015 - 11:00 Damn thing this society follows for nothing is a lot of blind traditions tat need to be stopped!! This is cruelty!! This isn't a mistake!! This is utter cruelty!!! Good work by promoting it to the world