To Be Lonely Is to Love

by Giane1980
"I'd rather journey alone than to become someone else's worst half or be with those who made me feel like I am a toxic to their lives than being able to see me as a blessing to them."

Living the adult life; taking in the responsibilities that is brought by it, the necessary commitments and all those stuff, isn't really easy. And, it takes a lot of courage to go on with it with the decision to be with someone whom we choose to love. But, would it make the journey easier? Would it make it faster than if traveled alone? Certainly, I don't know the answer because I am single in terms of marital status.

But, if the guy with whom we think deserves our love is kinda abusing that fact; like, instead of him being a woman's shoulder to cry on he'd choose to be with friends or, worst, to chemical addiction then we really should never hesitate to let him go. It's not that we are tired (who wouldn't get tired, anyway?); it simply means that we do need to be alone in this journey at times so as for us to be able to totally know ourselves and to be able to take care and to love ourselves as well.
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