Don't insult them

This is a story that my mom told me , when she is young she had a neighbour. The neighbour has a son that just come back from England from his doctor work. His parents decide to bring him to the cemetery to pray for his ancestor. His parent told him not to talk anything that can make the dead soul to be angry. He just agreed .
when arrive the cemetery , they walk pass through the tomb. When passing through the tomb , he squat down looking a picture on the tomb.
~ so beautiful! So pity she died at a young age or not she might be my type of girl.
After the praying they went home , that is when he become a bit weird. He always said it is cold when the weather is hot. Slowly he started to keep his hair long , using make up and wearing dress. He always lock himself in the room. He lost his job and friends , he become very silent. When he walk it is almost no sound at all, it is almost like he float a bit . He does not want to eat until his father force him to eat.
Not long , his parents bring him to see the doctor but his health is perfectly fine. Then one of his cousin recommend them to see the witch doctor at the Chinese temple. When they go , the old man ask does he go anywhere before this happen. They told him, they bring him to the cemetery for the praying.
Later the old man told them to prepare for the ceremony , they prepare the cloth , candle , money paper and many more. When everything is done, the ceremony started . the old man ask him
~ who are you ? Why are you disturbing him ?
In a girl deep voice , he replied
~ he insulted me , so I will let him suffer for insulting me !!!!!!!
His parent beg her to leave his son , in return they will offer her money and also will offer praying for her to reborn early. Slowly she agreed , when she leave the man. He faint but when he woke up , it is like a dream for him. He just remember going to the cemetery and nothing at all.
In our Chinese rules , when going to the cemetery never judge the picture of the dead person , even if u say beautiful or ugly ...don't judge them or not they will be very mad!! Also the next is don't call each other name at the cemetery , it is believe that the soul will remember your name and called you in the middle of the night by using the voice of the person u know ....follow the rules !! Broke the rules maybe cool but the result may cause unfortunate!!