Relationship Advice.

I am going to try to help a few of you out life. I am going to give you a few tips that I wish I had been told. Not necessarily told, but i wish that I had listened to. It would of saved me a lot of time, being how we are only dealt so much. It could have saved a lot of heart ache. I just wish I would of listened. Maybe you will.

First do not ever lose yourself. You are important. Its not ok to be called names or let down. Do not ever let anyone get away with that. You loving them is not an excuse for treating you badly.

Dont stay in a relationship because you see what it can or what it could be. It is what it is.
It will never be anything but that. You can be promised it will be better or they wont do it again. Fact is If it happened once it will happen again.

Do not stay because you have children. They would and will be better off if you don't.
Children learn what they live. If they watch someone else treat you disrespectfully, they will too.

Just be happy. Your happiness is really all that matters.If you think you need to change who you are for someone, you don't need them. Some one that loves you, Loves You.